Every few months, I’m lucky enough to get to get together with a very fine group of women I know through my increasingly long ago newspaper career. Laughter-filled conversations (some occurring simultaneously like a Robert Altman film) ranged from the personal — weight gain, sore knees — to word definitions, specifically what age is “elderly.” Because one of the youngest among us is about to turn 65, it also turned to Social Security and when to start claiming it.
Yet, sometimes retirement comes at the most opportune time. I wasn’t ready for it, but I was at the right age to get 100%. And only a short time before, my Dad suffered a minor stroke. Mom’s dementia was becoming more noticeable, and they needed a little assistance getting through the day. Number 1, I’m eternally grateful to have both parents still with me. And Number 2, it’s an honor to give back to those who gave me so much. Life is funny sometimes, you know?
Really good post this. I think having options to work or not work is the thing as we age for sure. It is boring but putting things in place before helps towards this. Thanks for sharing.
Yet, sometimes retirement comes at the most opportune time. I wasn’t ready for it, but I was at the right age to get 100%. And only a short time before, my Dad suffered a minor stroke. Mom’s dementia was becoming more noticeable, and they needed a little assistance getting through the day. Number 1, I’m eternally grateful to have both parents still with me. And Number 2, it’s an honor to give back to those who gave me so much. Life is funny sometimes, you know?
Yes, it is. Glad it gave you and your parents the time needed
Really good post this. I think having options to work or not work is the thing as we age for sure. It is boring but putting things in place before helps towards this. Thanks for sharing.